We’ll admit that this one seems a bit dramatic and rather serious to find yourself not attracted to your partner, but the truth is, it happens more than you think. At the start of any relationship there is always an attraction between the two participants. And like most things in this world, that attraction can change over time, and it will either go in one of two directions: either that attraction will grow and intensify, or it will fade and diminish. If you find yourself in a relationship with a person who you are no longer attracted to and don’t care to be intimate with them in case you couldn't guess it, you’ve got a pretty big problem.
It should be noted that attraction is a funny thing and certainly isn’t limited to the physical. It is very possible for a person the keep their looks, however, they may do something that their partner dislikes or finds so offensive that it alters their perception of them, making them seem less attractive. And while it is difficult to say and harder to admit, if you are in a relationship with a person that you are not attracted to, then you should not be in a relationship with that person. Trust us, it won’t work and the sooner you address that, the better off the two of you will be.